How.

How do you know when rules and structure in the church body is tantamount to legalism?

How do you know when enough is enough?

How do you discern and draw the line between submitting to authority, and blind obedience?

How do you keep your faith in the body of Christ when everyone else around you just doesn't want to try anymore?

Give up by giving in?
Or give up by giving up?
Or give up by giving out?

P.S I know you are concerned,but don't worry - I will never give up my faith. And to the TABbers, I'm sorry if this affects you, but I think.. if you want to know me better, then this is me. I do get discouraged sometimes.